god talks

Do you ever wonder why God works in some people very rapidly and in other people not so quickly. Are the people gods not working in so rapidly not listening? Are the other people God is just working in at that moment? God just has done so much in life, a lot lately, and shown me a lot of things, but was I not listening before?

I just wonder why some people have some spiritual gifts that are loud and known and God uses all the time. Then why do other people have these gifts and there not loud and not very evident. And god doesn't use them a lot...it confuses me!